In an age where every ping of our phones demands attention and every moment is filled with noise, "You're Not Listening" by Kate Murphy surfaces as a poignant exploration of a skill silently slipping away from our grasp: the art of listening. Through her journalistic lens, Murphy takes us on a global journey, uncovering the profound impact of our collective inattentiveness. From conversations paused by the lure of a smartphone to heartfelt confessions met with hurried nods, Murphy lays bare the epidemic of listening in half measures. Yet, this book is far from a lament; it is a call to rediscover one of humanity's most underappreciated powers. With a blend of wit, wisdom, and compelling storytelling, Murphy not only diagnoses the problem but also offers a path to redemption. Drawing insights from a diverse cast of expert listeners—including a CIA agent and a top furniture salesman—she reveals listening as an act of love, a means to forge deeper connections, and a way to empower change. "You're Not Listening" is both a mirror reflecting our modern-day follies and a guidebook to rebuilding a culture where genuine listening thrives. In turning the pages, readers embark on a transformative journey to reclaim the lost art of truly hearing each other, reminding us that in silence, we find the loudest truths.