In "Why Are We Yelling?", Buster Benson invites us on an enlightening journey through the maze of human conflict, transforming what we dread about disagreements into powerful tools for growth and innovation. With an engaging blend of personal anecdotes and research, Benson, a seasoned facilitator of high-stakes discussions in some of the world's leading tech companies, dismantles the fear surrounding arguments. This book is not just a guide to arguing better; it's a manifesto for reimagining conflict as a force for good, pushing us towards deeper understanding, creativity, and connection. Benson skillfully navigates the reader through the psychological underpinnings that make some arguments spiral into unproductive territory and offers practical strategies for steering them back on course. From mastering the art of staying calm under pressure to leveraging differences as a catalyst for creative solutions, "Why Are We Yelling?" equips you with the tools to break free from the cycle of futile bickering. Whether it's in the boardroom or at the dinner table, this book promises a radical shift in how you perceive and engage in conflicts, turning dreaded confrontations into opportunities for forging stronger relationships and sparking innovation.