The Myth of the Spoiled Child
The Myth of the Spoiled Child
Alfie Kohn
David Heinemeier Hansson
A great book [...], which is even more specific about nurturing and supporting kids and so forth. - DHH
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The Myth of the Spoiled Child

The Myth of the Spoiled Child: Coddled Kids, Helicopter Parents, and Other Phony Crises

Alfie Kohn
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Alfie Kohn
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In "The Myth of the Spoiled Child," Alfie Kohn challenges the pervasive belief that modern parenting is too permissive, that children today are overindulged, and that our society is producing a generation of entitled brats. With his characteristic insight and meticulously researched evidence, Kohn deconstructs these assumptions, arguing that they are not only unfounded but harmful to both children and society. Through a compelling mix of analysis, anecdote, and research, Kohn invites readers to question the conventional wisdom about parenting and discipline, offering a new perspective that emphasizes the importance of unconditional love, empathy, and respect in child-rearing. Kohn’s exploration is both a critique of mainstream parenting advice and a guide to a more compassionate approach that fosters independence, cooperation, and critical thinking in children. He systematically dismantles the myths surrounding modern parenting, revealing how they are rooted in a misunderstanding of children's needs and a cultural bias towards authoritarianism. "The Myth of the Spoiled Child" is an essential read for parents, educators, and anyone interested in creating a more equitable and nurturing environment for the next generation. It is not only a call to rethink our approach to parenting but also a profound critique of societal values that prioritize competition and success over the well-being and happiness of children.

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Released
2014
11 Mar
Length
280
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A great book [...], which is even more specific about nurturing and supporting kids and so forth. - DHH
Children don’t just need to be loved; they need to know that nothing they do will change the fact that they’re loved.
— Alfie Kohn, The Myth of the Spoiled Child

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