The Drama of the Gifted Child
The Drama of the Gifted Child
Alice Miller
Josh Waitzkin
Josh Waitzkin recommended this book in the "Tools of Titans" book.
Dr. Gabor Maté
All about the fact that stuff happens to us as children, negative things happen. Then, we adapt to those things by taking on certain defensive ways of being. - Dr. Gabor Maté
Whitney Cummings
If you’re a creative person, if you have any kind of anxiety or discomfort, just read it. - Whitney Cummings
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The Drama of the Gifted Child

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

Alice Miller
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Alice Miller
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In "The Drama of the Gifted Child," Alice Miller embarks on a profound exploration into the caverns of childhood, where early traumas lay buried, shaping the contours of adult life. With surgical precision and compassionate insight, Miller unveils the paradox of the gifted child—gifted not in the traditional sense of academic or artistic prowess, but in the heartrending ability to endure and adapt to the emotional and psychological abuses of their upbringing. Through the lens of psychoanalysis, she argues that this very adaptability, while a survival mechanism during youth, morphs into a source of alienation and emptiness in adulthood. This seminal work delves into the intricate dance between the love we crave and the pain we endure, urging readers to confront their buried past to reclaim the authenticity of their present selves. Miller's narrative is not just an academic treatise; it's a beacon for those wandering in the fog of their own histories. She posits that the path to wholeness requires a reckoning with the repressed pain and anger that lurk beneath the surface of our polished personas. Through vivid case studies and an unflinching look at the cost of survival, "The Drama of the Gifted Child" offers a roadmap out of the darkness. It’s a call to arms to rescue the truth of our experiences from the depths, to acknowledge the profound effects of our formative years, and to embrace the difficult journey toward healing and self-discovery. Miller’s work remains a timeless testament to the resilience of the human spirit, encouraging us not merely to survive, but to thrive by confronting and transforming our deepest wounds.

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Released
1979
1 Jan
Length
136
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All about the fact that stuff happens to us as children, negative things happen. Then, we adapt to those things by taking on certain defensive ways of being. - Dr. Gabor Maté
If you’re a creative person, if you have any kind of anxiety or discomfort, just read it. - Whitney Cummings
Josh Waitzkin recommended this book in the "Tools of Titans" book.
Experience has taught us that we have only one enduring weapon in our struggle against mental illness: the emotional discovery and emotional acceptance of the truth in the individual and unique history of our childhood.
— Alice Miller, The Drama of the Gifted Child

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