Strangers to Ourselves
Strangers to Ourselves
Timothy D. Wilson
Malcolm Gladwell
One of the loveliest, most insightful books about social psychology that I ever read. - Malcolm Gladwell
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Strangers to Ourselves

Strangers to Ourselves: Discovering the Adaptive Unconscious

Timothy D. Wilson
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Timothy D. Wilson
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In "Strangers to Ourselves," Timothy D. Wilson embarks on a fascinating journey into the depths of the human psyche, challenging the ancient wisdom of "know thyself" through the lens of modern psychological science. With a narrative that is both enlightening and provocative, Wilson unveils the hidden realm of the unconscious—a realm far more complex and less accessible than we might think. This unconscious is not a dark cellar of repressed desires and internal conflicts, but a vibrant engine driving our judgments, emotions, and actions, often without our conscious awareness. Through a compelling synthesis of research and theory, Wilson reveals how this adaptive unconscious shapes our lives, setting goals and sparking actions beneath the surface of our introspective gaze. However, "Strangers to Ourselves" goes beyond merely mapping the terrain of the unconscious. It confronts the unsettling truth that our self-conceptions are frequently built on narratives that stray from the reality our unconscious knows. Wilson argues that introspection, rather than being a straightforward path to self-knowledge, often leads us astray, crafting stories that obscure our true selves. By turning our attention outward—to our behaviors, our achievements, and the perceptions of those around us—Wilson offers a new roadmap for self-discovery. This book is not just a journey into the unconscious; it is a call to understand ourselves in a more nuanced and accurate way, urging us to listen to the silent whispers of our adaptive unconscious and see ourselves, perhaps for the first time, as strangers to ourselves.

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Released
2002
1 Jan
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One of the loveliest, most insightful books about social psychology that I ever read. - Malcolm Gladwell
Our greatest illusion is to believe that we are what we think ourselves to be. —H. F. Amiel, The Private Journal
— Timothy D. Wilson, Strangers to Ourselves

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