Strangers Drowning
Strangers Drowning
Larissa MacFarquhar
Nick Thompson
A story about people who make extraordinary moral choices like the choice to adopt 23 children and bring them into your lives, [...] and why they make those choices. - Nick Thompson
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Strangers Drowning

Strangers Drowning: Grappling with Impossible Idealism, Drastic Choices, and the Overpowering Urge to Help

Larissa MacFarquhar
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Larissa MacFarquhar
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In "Strangers Drowning," Larissa MacFarquhar embarks on a profound exploration of the outer limits of altruism, plunging into the lives of individuals for whom the act of helping others is not just a duty but an existential imperative. These extraordinary characters, driven by a deep-seated need to alleviate the suffering of strangers, often at great personal cost, challenge our conventional understanding of kindness and sacrifice. From the donor willing to part with her kidney for someone she has never met, to the activist stripping away all material possessions in the name of a cause, and the foster parent whose home becomes a sanctuary for countless children, MacFarquhar paints a vivid tableau of modern-day saints whose stories provoke awe, admiration, and a whirlwind of ethical dilemmas. Through meticulous storytelling and philosophical inquiry, "Strangers Drowning" confronts the reader with the uncomfortable tensions between familial loyalty and universal benevolence, between the comfort of inaction and the compulsion to intervene. MacFarquhar navigates these moral quandaries with grace, weaving together narratives that are as unsettling as they are uplifting, forcing us to ponder the price of our principles and the lengths to which we would go to uphold them. This book is not just an account of extreme goodness; it is an exploration of the human condition, a challenge to our perceptions of virtue, and a compelling invitation to reevaluate the boundaries of our own empathy.

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2015
22 Sep
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A story about people who make extraordinary moral choices like the choice to adopt 23 children and bring them into your lives, [...] and why they make those choices. - Nick Thompson
Giving up alcohol is an asceticism for the modern do-gooder, drinking being, like sex, a pleasure that humans have always indulged in, involving a loss of self-control, the renunciation of which marks the renouncer as different and separate from other people.To drink, to get drunk, is to lower yourself on purpose for the sake of good fellowship. You abandon yourself, for a time, to life and fate. You allow yourself to become stupider and less distinct. Your boundaries become blurry: you open your self and feel connected to people around you. You throw off your moral scruples, and suspect it was only those scruples that prevented the feeling of connection before. You feel more empathy for your fellow, but at the same time, because you are drunk, you render yourself unable to help him; so, to drink is to say, I am a sinner, I have chosen not to help.
— Larissa MacFarquhar, Strangers Drowning

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