Sex at Dawn
Sex at Dawn
Christopher Ryan
Naval Ravikant
Naval Ravikant mentioned this book on "The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish" podcast.
Aubrey Marcus
The initial domino that led me down the path of exploring open relationships, which has been a huge advancement in my own personal happiness and fulfillment. - Aubrey Marcus
Joe Rogan
Incredible. - Joe Rogan
Noah Kagan
Jealousy is a societal creation and great ways to be aware of why it happens. - Noah Kagan
Esther Perel
Esther Perel suggested this book as an answer to "What are some [resources] for couples who want to explore having a more “monogamish” relationship?"
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Sex at Dawn

Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality

Christopher Ryan
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Christopher Ryan
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In "Sex at Dawn," authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá embark on a revolutionary journey that challenges the conventional wisdom surrounding human sexuality and relationships. With an engaging blend of anthropology, archaeology, primatology, and more, they dismantle the deeply ingrained belief that sexual monogamy is natural to our species. Instead, they present a compelling argument that humans evolved in egalitarian groups where sharing was the norm, including sexual partners. This groundbreaking book not only questions the societal and scientific narratives we've been fed but also illuminates the rich tapestry of human sexual history through evidence long ignored or unseen. Through a meticulous examination of diverse fields, Ryan and Jethá reveal how modern struggles with fidelity, sexual orientation, and family dynamics are deeply rooted in our promiscuous past. "Sex at Dawn" explores why passion fades, why affairs are so common, and what our bodies can tell us about the ancient origins of modern sexuality. With a mix of humor, insight, and daring, the authors guide us towards a more optimistic future, suggesting that understanding our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity could reshape our relationships and societies. This book is a bold invitation to rethink everything we thought we knew about sex, love, and human nature, making it a crucial read for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of human intimacy and connection.

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Released
2010
29 Jun
Length
416
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Esther Perel suggested this book as an answer to "What are some [resources] for couples who want to explore having a more “monogamish” relationship?"
The initial domino that led me down the path of exploring open relationships, which has been a huge advancement in my own personal happiness and fulfillment. - Aubrey Marcus
Jealousy is a societal creation and great ways to be aware of why it happens. - Noah Kagan
Incredible. - Joe Rogan
Naval Ravikant mentioned this book on "The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish" podcast.
And yet, despite repeated assurances that women aren't particularly sexual creatures, in cultures around the world men have gone to extraordinary lengths to control female libido: female genital mutilation, head-to-toe chadors, medieval witch burnings, chastity belts, suffocating corsets, muttered insults about "insatiable" whores, pathologizing, paternalistic medical diagnoses of nymphomania or hysteria, the debilitating scorn heaped on any female who chooses to be generous with her sexuality...all parts of a worldwide campaign to keep the supposedly low-key female libido under control. Why the electrified high-security razor-wire fence to contain a kitty-cat?
— Christopher Ryan, Sex at Dawn

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