Getting the Love You Want
Getting the Love You Want
Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
Whitney Cummings
A very illuminating exploration of how we’re attracted to people who have the negative qualities of our primary caretakers. - Whitney Cummings
Julie Rice
I definitely give people a lot of people [this book]. - Julie Rice
Mark Manson
I read [this book] about 10 years ago and it blew me away. - Mark Manson
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Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
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Harville Hendrix Ph.D.
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In the timeless classic "Getting the Love You Want," Harville Hendrix Ph.D. unlocks the secret to transformative relationships, guiding couples on a journey to deep, fulfilling love. This groundbreaking book, enriched with a fresh introduction in its latest edition, stands as a beacon for those seeking to revive the spark in their partnerships. Hendrix, with profound insight, unveils a step-by-step program designed to foster understanding, intimacy, and mutual support. Through engaging exercises and enlightening case studies, readers are empowered to explore the depths of their relationships, heal old wounds, and rediscover the joy of being together. Beyond merely addressing the symptoms of relationship discord, Hendrix delves into the root causes, inviting couples to confront their deepest needs and fears. "Getting the Love You Want" is more than a book; it's a transformative experience that redefines what it means to be in a relationship. Whether you're looking to rekindle a fading love or build a stronger foundation with your partner, Hendrix's wisdom offers a roadmap to a more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying partnership. This seminal work has already guided thousands of couples toward a more vibrant and loving future; let it lead you and your partner to yours.

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Released
2005
1 Jan
Length
336
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I read [this book] about 10 years ago and it blew me away. - Mark Manson
I definitely give people a lot of people [this book]. - Julie Rice
A very illuminating exploration of how we’re attracted to people who have the negative qualities of our primary caretakers. - Whitney Cummings
When we were babies, we didn’t smile sweetly at our mothers to get them to take care of us. We didn’t pinpoint our discomfort by putting it into words. We simply opened our mouths and screamed. And it didn’t take us long to learn that, the louder we screamed, the quicker they came. The success of this tactic was turned into an “imprint,” a part of our stored memory about how to get the world to respond to our needs: “When you are frustrated, provoke the people around you.
— Harville Hendrix Ph.D., Getting the Love You Want

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